I told H tonight that I didn't like the idea that he was going to the bachleor party to the beach this weekend because I am stressed out. He is still going - and promised not to worry because they are in the middle of nowhere and they are just going to be on the beach *drinking* all day. I don't guess I can tell him what to do or tell him not to go.
I still don't think he fully understands that my feelings are really hurt. He will be in his apartment next week and I will be able to see him more.
This next year can not be like it was last year. We both are going to have to make an effort to be together more during the week. There won't be excuses this time.
I don't like the distance. I mean, I do like doing my own thing, but it is just not healthy for someone who is trying to maintain a serious relationship. So, we will have to make an effort. No ifs, ands, or buts.
Wednesday, April 30, 2008
No Title - Same ole rant
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He is clueless! Zack thinks the same. He said to tell him why you didn't want him to go, or just drop hints, major ones. But, since he's leaving tomorrow, I would go with his first idea.
He shouldn't feel like you are "telling" him what to do, if you tell him why you don't want him to go, start it by saying "I would rather you not go because...." This is telling him not to go, it's just expressing your feeling about it.
Good Luck!
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