we are seperated. which i think is a nice way to say currently broken up. I went to his new apt last night and we talked. we mutually decided that we need space. he doesn't want to date anyone else, and neither do i. but we need to get our act straight. he will be applying to med school and disclosed that we would not be married during that time. i don't want to wait until i am 30 to start my life and be married. that just doesn't make sense. he feels that it would be unfair to me because he would never be around.
so that's where we are. now, i need to figure out what i am supposed to do. i'm not so sure what this 'gray' area really means.
Saturday, May 10, 2008
seperation...
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Oh wow! I am sorry to hear about the seperation. I think with the way things have been going, it's a long time coming. And you are right about waiting until your 30 to start your life. I think this isn't a "gray" area. Look at it as a "pink" area. You are now free, it's summer and though you are coming from a long relationship, you can spread your wings and be a flamingo! : )
If you need to chat, call me!
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